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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - Competition on Worries!
(National Competition on Worries)
(It's nice to meet you.)
Let me introduce you to today's guests.
She's a mother of two children now.
She has two children now.
Entertainer Hyeun Young!
It's nice to meet you all.
- Seo Yu Ri! - Hello.
He won the bronze medal in judo at the London Olympics...
and is now the judo team coach of Yangpyeong County Office.
He's striving to train his junior judo players.
Coach Cho Jun Ho!
Hello.
Entertainer Im Hyeon Ju!
Welcome, Hyeon Ju.
- Singer Ha Sung Woon! - Ha Sung Woon!
- You have two children. - Yes.
But you've been maintaining...
- your figure. - Exactly.
It may seem that I haven't changed on the outside,
but I have aged inside.
(I have aged inside.)
Does your husband help you look after your kids?
My husband is still living his life just as he did...
before getting married.
Could you elaborate?
He likes playing tennis very much.
So he goes for tennis training...
for 10 days once a year.
- That's long. - Like off-season training.
Is he a national team player?
I don't know why he does that.
Hyeun Young, you should be here for counseling...
- That's right. - and share your worries.
I'm so worried.
So he... Yes, go ahead.
- Do you have something to say? - To him.
When I was pregnant with my second child,
I watched Wanna One a lot on TV.
Thank you.
I really enjoyed your performances.
Was there a particular member of the group you liked?
Of course, I liked Sung Woon.
If you liked all the members, your child must look...
Then her son must look like Sung Woon.
- He does look like Sung Woon. - Really?
My son is very handsome.
Try to have a conversation with your husband when you're home.
She was eager to have a chat.
(She's excited to have someone to talk to.)
Chat with your husband at home.
She's so excited to be outside the home.
Anyway, Wanna One have officially finished...
their activities as a group.
- That's sad. - Don't you miss your group members?
(Do you miss your group members?)
There are times when I think of them.
I used to chat with my group members in the waiting room,
but it's so quiet now.
That's when I think of them.
Right. There are some members you're missing.
And are you also happy that you don't have to see...
some of them?
A few of them.
- My goodness. - Wanna One has broken up.
- Right. - Maybe that's why he looks...
downcast being here alone.
Don't worry. We'll be your teammates.
- Of course. - Thank you.
Think that I'm Kang Daniel and she's some other member.
- Pardon? - Kang Daniel?
- Think of us as your group members. - Kang Daniel's head's not this big.
I'm Kim Daniel.
- Kim Daniel. - Trust us.
- You released your solo album. - Yes.
Sing your new song for us with confidence.
That would be great.
(Excited)
("Bird" by Ha Sung Woon)
(The romantic flight for a new start)
(Too emotional)
(His voice mesmerizes everyone deeply.)
He's good.
Sung Woon has such a beautiful singing voice.
- He has a mellow voice. - Exactly.
Jun Ho is the London Olympics hero.
I heard you were excited on your way to the studio.
I got the guest list of today's show via text.
I see.
But someone wrote Yu Ri's name "Sayuri".
Since Sayuri is my ideal type of woman,
I was excited.
(That's disappointing.)
Oh, dear.
(He talked about Sayuri suddenly.)
Hyeon Ju, what's your ideal type?
To be honest, I like...
a simple and ordinary man.
Just like Cha Eun Woo.
- What? - He looks great...
She... She has lost her mind.
(She has lost her mind!)
- A simple and ordinary man? - Cha Eun Woo?
An ordinary man like Cha Eun Woo?
He looks great without trying.
That's because he has a handsome face.
He's very handsome.
Yu Ri is here with us today.
Her name was ranked top on the internet hit list.
- She became the talk of the town. - Congratulations.
(Let's give her a round of applause for now.)
- Well... - What was it about?
I suffered from a thyroid-related illness for a long time.
Therefore, I was on a hiatus to get treatment. And recently,
I fully recovered.
- That's a relief. - I was so happy.
I took a lot of selfies that day.
And I looked too pretty in those photos.
I posted the photos, and people thought that I had plastic surgery.
People thought you had plastic surgery?
I was surprised and wondered if I caused any trouble.
(I'm relieved that she's fully recovered.)
We're going to begin Hello...
with many different stars as always.
Show us the keywords please.
(The keywords are revealed.)
"My Untrustworthy Son".
"Are All Kids These Days Like This?"
- And "Life Coordinator". - Yes.
"My Untrustworthy Son".
Hello. I'm a mom in my 40s, and I feel hopeless...
because of my 16-year-old son.
My son was born with a talent.
"Son, have you finished your homework?"
"Mom, I have no homework today."
"Son, do you not have homework today either?"
"No. I have no homework."
- Really? - Many schools don't give homework.
But his teacher called his mom.
"Hello. Are you feeling any better?"
"Hello. What are you saying?"
"Ji Min said that you had been sick,"
"so he looked after his younger siblings and couldn't do homework."
- My son... - He said he had no homework.
tells a lie whenever he speaks.
(Her son lies all the time.)
- He lies all the time. - "Mom. Mom."
"I hung out with Young Ho at his house earlier today."
"I ate pork belly for dinner."
"Mom, I hung out with Min Soo at his house earlier today."
"His mother made pasta for dinner."
"But it wasn't as good as your pasta."
"So I thought of you while eating it."
He says nice things to her.
However...
"Hi, Min Soo. It's been a while."
"I heard that my son Ji Min went to your house yesterday."
"He didn't come to my house."
"Ji Min went to an internet cafe yesterday."
He's been lying to me...
for the past year without even feeling guilty.
"Son, I told you that lying is the worst thing in the world!"
"Will you lie to me again?"
"Mom, I'm sorry."
(He starts apologizing right away.)
"I won't lie to you again."
Isn't this Dong Yeob's story?
Doesn't he sound like Dong Yeob?
(He would've been like that.)
My son fools me every single day.
What should I do about him?
(What should I do about his lies?)
However, he knows what to say to his mother.
Jun Ho, did you lie often when you were a child?
I think he lied often.
- I lied a lot as a kid. - Right?
I stopped lying when I started to learn judo...
because I thought...
I might get killed by my senior players if I lied.
Sung Woon, did you lie a lot as a child?
No, I didn't lie.
Did you not lie as a member of Wanna One?
No.
Is that true? Do you think I'm pretty?
(Lie test)
(He is bursting out laughing.)
(He's quietly honest.)
Even if his life is in danger,
(He's a man of conviction.)
He can't tell a lie.
(Laughing)
A mother whose son causes her so much grief...
by telling lies to her sent us her story.
Please come out.
(Who is about to explode because of her son's lies?)
Jun Ho.
(Bae Eun Ha)
(Welcome.)
In fact, teenage boys...
tell petty lies.
That's right. They lie often.
Since he was little,
he's been lying as easily as he breathes in the air.
- For example, - "As easily as he breathes"?
- when he was in elementary school, - She's funny.
in his school announcement notebook,
he wrote only three things.
One day, I saw another student's notebook by accident.
There were two more things written in his notebook.
And those were homework.
He didn't even write down his homework.
Number 4 and 5.
His teacher always asked me,
"Are you feeling all right?"
- I guess that's why she asked that. - It must've been weird.
I guess he lied that you were sick as an excuse.
- Yes. - What could have been your problem?
(What disease could he have said she had?)
I'm suffering stress-induced illness.
(She means that.)
When did he start to lie to you?
The most memorable thing...
is what he said at the age of four.
- At the age of 4? - But at the age of 4,
children are not good with words.
He was good with words just like Dong Yeob...
- when he was little. - I see. He was good with words.
- What did he lie about? - A four-year-old boy...
I wanted to let him...
play with flour to help to develop his senses.
I spread a big picnic mat in his room...
and told him to play with flour only inside the picnic mat.
But he made our house a mess.
I asked why he did it, but he said he didn't do it.
But he and I were alone at home.
His lie is a little scary.
Back then, I thought...
- it was understandable. - Yes. He was a little child.
But when he was seven,
I thought he had a serious problem.
When I made gimbap, tonkatsu, or toast for him,
while eating, he suddenly went to the bathroom...
or the bedroom.
One day, while cleaning the bathroom,
I found gimbap and corn dogs on the shelf.
- The food you made for him? - Yes.
I guess he hid the food there because he didn't want to eat.
I asked him why he did it,
and he said he didn't do it.
- Did he deny it again? - Yes.
Couldn't he have been considerate of you?
He couldn't say that it wasn't good.
(Cracking up)
Since he was a little boy,
could he have made an excuse...
at that moment?
Honestly, I thought he would stop lying when he grew up.
However, in an exam in middle school,
he got 20 out of 100 points in math.
- 20 points? - 20 points?
I asked him what happened, and he said with a serious look,
"Mom, I marked my answers in wrong spots on the answer sheet."
That happens.
So I believed him.
But it turned out to be a lie later.
- It wasn't a mistake? - He got 20 out of 100 points.
So...
Let's talk to her son now.
- Her son is here. Hello. - Hello.
(Who is the son who always lies to his mom?)
- He looks so smart. - Indeed.
- He looks smart. - He looks smart.
Promise that you won't lie today and will only tell the truth.
Okay, I will.
- Take an oath. - I take an oath.
"I won't lie."
I won't lie.
Is what your mom said all true?
Yes, it is.
- At least, he admits to it. - I know.
He doesn't seem like a liar.
Was there a lie you didn't get caught with?
- Yes, a bit. - Something you haven't told her.
- A bit. - Goodness.
- What is it? - Once, she was...
looking for a dishcloth.
I was cooking instant noodles.
I accidentally burned it, so I threw it away.
She asked me who did it.
And I said, "Was there a dishcloth?"
(Goodness)
- He's a genius. - Goodness.
You're a genius.
- That was smart. - That was.
"Was there a dishcloth?"
(He's creative.)
- He's amazing. - Did you know this?
No, this is my first-time hearing. I wondered if it was in the fridge.
So I bought a new one.
But...
Why do you keep lying to her?
I'm afraid of getting hit.
- Getting hit? - Yes.
- There is a reason. - How does she punish you?
She hits my bottom.
- But... - With her hands?
- A broom. - A broom?
Once, she hit me with bamboo.
One hit?
No, about 30 hits.
- 30 hits? - At once?
Yes, it was because I kept dodging it.
- I get it now. - She must've been vexed.
How else does she punish you other than by hitting?
- I was drenched and kicked out. - Drenched?
- During the wintertime? - You did that?
- In this winter? - Yes.
(That's a bit harsh.)
I remember freezing that time.
Whenever you got punished,
how were you hurt, and what did you think about?
I wanted to turn back time.
- Turn back time? - I wondered how this happened.
(He reflected on himself.)
- You thought to yourself. - You reflected on yourself.
When you punish him,
not only do you hit him with a stick,
but did you also suddenly get mad at him?
After I caught him lying, I'd ask why he lied,
but he wouldn't answer me.
I've grabbed onto his hair, telling him to tell me.
- Goodness. - I pulled his hair out.
How about verbally?
Yes, I have.
I have verbally abused him.
I've told him not to cry even if I died.
- I told him he had no right... - Goodness.
to cry in front of my portrait.
I told him not to cry while scattering my ashes.
- I've said stuff like that. - That's a bit harsh.
- Goodness. - It's harsh.
She said that she was harsh when she said those things,
but let's ask him what things she said that hurt him.
What hurt you the most?
When she told me to leave the house and live with my dad.
(Confused)
- What? - That was unexpected.
- It's completely something else. - Why did you vent at him...
regarding your husband?
It wasn't like that.
Do you hate living with your dad that much?
Does the thought of it gives you goosebumps?
- It does. - Of course.
She says she hits him because he lies.
And he says he lies because he's afraid...
- of getting hit by her. - Right.
- The dad must play a crucial role. - Right.
If my son had lied, I'd be so outraged.
Right. Whenever I tell my husband about our son's lying,
he says that everyone lies and that it'll get better.
- He says I'm overreacting. - Really?
He said I was too sensitive, and I believed him.
But when I thought about it,
my husband also lied a lot,
and that was why we fought often at the beginning of our marriage.
- Because he lied? - Yes.
It's like this.
He often parked illegally and ran the red light,
so he received quite a bit of penalty.
But he said he didn't do it.
So I called the borough office, told them this was wrong,
- and asked them to check once more. - Goodness.
- It became a bigger issue. - Right.
They were nice enough to send me photos of my husband in the act.
So I asked him why he lied,
and he said it was because he didn't want me to get mad.
- They're the same. - I know.
Let's talk to the husband. Hello.
Hello.
She claims that your son lies because he takes after you.
What do you think?
I think so as well.
At times, my wife asks me to pay the utility bill for her.
That's when I thought...
if I failed to pay it,
I should lie and say that I did.
Then afterward, I'd pay.
Because I know that if she finds out,
she would explode.
- She gets angry. - It had happened before.
How badly does she get angry that you'd lie?
Does she strip you naked and kick you out?
- Perhaps, she drenches him too. - What is it?
No, she doesn't. She says that our son is like me.
She says things like that.
(Does he lie to protect his son?)
After we start talking about his lying,
I tell him that children are like mirrors...
and that I'd like to raise our other two kids right.
I've asked to live separately.
(She dropped a bombshell on him.)
I've said that before.
(What will happen to their first son?)
I also told my son that I had given up on him...
and that we should cut ties.
I said I'd only be his mother on paper...
and that he should live elsewhere with his dad.
(To a 16-year-old, it's shocking.)
The rest of us should be happy.
My two kids and I are completely happy.
(She's happier with her two other kids.)
(She excludes her husband and their first son.)
- I'm so frustrated. - I did say those things to them.
When I heard what you had just said,
although I was a stranger,
- I was shocked. - It would've disappointed him.
- Me too. - Right?
When you heard that,
did you ask her not to say those things...
because it hurt you?
No, I've never contradicted her.
- In case it got worse? - You didn't want to make it worse.
It seems like he's walking on eggshells in front of his mom.
Do you also agree?
Yes, I do.
Sometimes, he lies out of habit.
There are times when he doesn't have...
- Right. - to lie.
He said that he was the team leader for a school project...
and that he was complimented by his teacher.
- He said that. - He made it up?
Right. Later on, the teacher told us...
that she once had to scold him...
because he was chatting and disrupting the class.
That's when I realized...
that he desired to be complimented...
- Right. - and acknowledged by his parents.
I only chatted during classes...
that I didn't like, but it's true that I was complimented.
(He speaks for himself.)
- Really? - Yes.
- He was complimented. - He said it's true.
- And... - You don't know him at all.
(No one believes me.)
I can feel that the parents...
have lost trust in their son.
They don't believe him even if he's telling the truth.
Do you sometimes feel disappointed?
Yes, I get frustrated.
She once said that if I finished my homework and did the dishes,
I'd be allowed to play games for two hours.
So I did my homework and the dishes.
- Okay. - At 2pm,
I started my game.
But she suddenly told me that she needed the computer.
If I suddenly left the game,
my account could've gotten suspended.
- And I had only played... - He had his reasons.
- for an hour and a half. - It's important.
- So... - You still had 30 minutes left.
But she said I was lying about starting late.
(She thought he was lying.)
- That's really important. - It is.
- You should understand him. - His account could be suspended.
Did you tell her so?
I didn't have the chance to.
She was getting too angry.
- She kept scolding you. - Ma'am.
That's something really important.
Every time I need to use the computer...
to do something, he's always playing games.
But ma'am.
It seems like he did just as he was told,
- but did you doubt him? - Yes.
- You got mad all of a sudden. - That's true.
And that disappointed you.
Her friend is here with us.
She has told us about some issues with her son.
- Were you aware of this? - Of course.
My son also lies a lot.
- Right, they all do. - But she is...
a very righteous person and says that...
- a lie creates another lie. - That's true.
I guess you're not that righteous.
- No, I'm not. - She admits to it.
For some of them, I can just overlook them.
Could you give us an example?
I'm not sure if I'm allowed to say this.
My son told me that he was coming home soon...
but didn't for 3 to 4 days.
- So I was about to report him. - Wait.
- But I let him go. - That's something serious, ma'am!
You should've looked for him!
- You should've been here. - That's serious!
- You should've been here. - For that,
you should've reported him and go out looking for him.
While watching them,
I wondered if I should change my ways.
- Are those your other kids? - Yes.
- How are they? - They're cute.
Our second son is my ideal type of son.
I can feel her discrimination.
Our second son is...
very upright. He's not good at studying, though.
But he gives his all no matter what it may be.
It's true that I favor him.
But I don't discriminate.
It's true what she said about my brother,
but he isn't perfect.
No one is perfect.
- Exactly. - We'd be playing a game.
But when she comes in,
he turns it off immediately.
(He's quick-witted.)
But for me, I just play until the end.
You're not that quick-witted.
I, of course, thought that he'd continue to play with me.
So I just continued to play and got caught.
- Do you feel betrayed by him? - I do.
(You should be ashamed.)
- I see. - Sometimes, he lies too.
- He does? - Your brother does?
- But she said that he didn't. - He lies too!
On Sundays, I clean the house.
I finished all the cleaning.
My parents came in and complimented me.
I told them that I did it.
But suddenly, my brother said that he and our sister helped out.
Goodness.
- He said that? - At that time, I hated him.
It seems like...
- I pity him. - she's a bit shocked.
I was surprised by her expression.
Is it that you thought your oldest son lied?
Or are you disappointed at your second son...
as the truth about him has been revealed?
She did this.
(Biting her lower lip)
- Who did you give that look? - My second son.
- She must've been disappointed. - Were you shocked...
because your second son lied too?
No. It's not that.
I had no idea.
I thought he was an upright kid.
- Oh, dear. - Ma'am,
- you're wrong about that. - That's right.
It's not that he did something terribly wrong.
Right. Your second son's ears turned so red.
He's the most nervous among everyone...
- in this studio. - That's right.
- Right. - What should we do?
- My goodness. - Now...
Why did you tell your mom...
that you cleaned the house when you actually didn't?
I wanted to be praised by my mom.
You wanted to be praised.
- He didn't... - I see.
Don't lie to us.
Be honest with us, okay?
If you lie, you'll have to live with your dad alone.
So be honest.
Have you ever told a lie...
that no one in your family knows?
(My second son wouldn't have...)
Yes, I have.
Good. It's good that you both are honest.
- You're a man. - Ma'am, don't be disappointed.
That's okay. I prefer it when they're honest.
- It's better, right? - Yes.
- I want to hear it. - Tell us.
What did you lie about?
When my mom went out...
to see her friend on the third floor,
she let us watch TV because she thought we'd be bored.
My sister and I...
watched TV longer than she told us.
But we turned it off before she came back, so we didn't get caught.
(He turned the TV off before his mom came home.)
- And... - He's so cute.
(He's so cute.)
When my mom and dad went out,
the three of us watched TV.
- TV? - However,
my dad came home suddenly.
I tried to turn the TV off.
I turned it off at the right timing,
- The remote control didn't work? - but the television...
didn't work. It wouldn't turn off.
- The TV didn't turn off. - It didn't turn off.
Oh, no.
- So did you break the TV? - You should've turned off...
the setup box too.
- You must've been scared. - Did you break the TV?
What happened?
So we got caught.
But he didn't scold us.
Your dad?
Have you never lied to your mom?
I have.
- I have lied to her. - What did you lie about?
When I ate lunch at school,
I left over some food, but I told my mom...
that I ate it all.
- That's okay. She's so cute. - She is cute.
When your mom asked if you finished your meal,
you said you did. That's all, right?
Does your mom look very upset...
because of Ji Min?
Yes.
My mom once said to me,
"I wish there were two of you."
(Upset)
But I feel bad for Ji Min sometimes.
- Why? - Why?
When he causes trouble,
my mom tells him to leave the house,
it makes me worry if I might not see him again in my life.
And as it's winter, when I think of him leaving home,
- He'd be cold. - I feel bad for him.
She's so sweet.
She likes Ji Min.
(She felt the pain that Ji Min was going through.)
When Ji Min gets scolded by your mom,
do you feel bad too?
Yes. I feel very upset.
When my mom and Ji Min fight,
they don't even look at each other in the eyes,
which creates tension in our home.
So I try to liven up the mood by making dad jokes.
(Laughing)
- Dad jokes? - Could you...
- tell us a few dad jokes? - He's adorable.
This is such an ideal family.
Tell us a dad joke you know.
(What kind of dad jokes do kids these days like?)
What's the word that means the king hates to enter his palace?
- The king hates to enter it? - He hates to enter his palace?
Guess the answer.
(A dad who wants to get the right answer)
(What could that be?)
- King... - "Grumbling and whining".
He got it right.
- "Grumbling and whining"? - Right.
- He's not so much older than him. - Oh, my.
- Tell us one more joke. - Right.
What is it called when strawberry gets fired?
- "Strawberry jam"? - Strawberry...
- I think that's correct. - "Strawberry syrup".
- "Strawberry syrup". - That's correct.
(Hooray for dads.)
Do you think to make jokes like this help...
to lighten up the mood?
(It's funny.)
My mom laughed and asked where I heard the jokes.
And then she made up with Ji Min several times.
That was funny.
Ma'am, there were a few moments...
- when you lost your temper. - Yes. She lost her temper.
- She should fix it. - And you used expressions...
that moms don't usually say to their children.
Why do you think it's hard for you to control your temper?
In fact, I...
worked until the last month of pregnancy before Ji Min was born.
After he was born, and I looked into his eyes,
- I couldn't leave for work. - Right.
So I became a stay-at-home mom.
However, Ji Min lied to me repeatedly,
and my husband even said that he lied because of me.
My self-esteem dropped.
I felt like he would've grown up better if I hadn't raised him.
I became depressed and helpless.
I went through a hard time.
(That's understandable.)
Did you know that your wife felt this way?
Since my wife has a strong sense of duty...
as a stay-at-home mom,
she had high expectations of our children,
but he couldn't live up to her expectations.
- And she got disappointed. - I can understand her.
They say that no parents can...
- control their children's lives. - That's right.
- She needs to let go. - So I'm going to...
ask Ji Min a question.
I know that your mother gets angry at you.
But is it very hard for you to talk to your mother honestly?
Is it hard not to lie to her?
I don't have the courage to tell her honestly.
- He's afraid. - Why?
I'm afraid she might hit me and scold me.
So I choose to lie even if I'll get scolded later.
To avoid the situation?
- Right. That's understandable. - I never knew that...
because Ji Min...
has never explained why he lied.
(I couldn't tell you.)
The most important thing is...
how the parents react...
when they catch their children doing something.
Right.
If you yell at your children without hearing them out,
they try not to get caught lying...
- with more convincing lies. - That's right.
You need to have a conversation with your child...
about why he had to lie to you.
And if you make him believe...
that you will never hit him or swear at him again,
- I think he'll lie less often. - Right.
However, if you get caught lying,
you must take responsibility for that.
Yes. Of course.
I'll try to talk to my child to find out about...
- why he lied to me... - Good.
and set up rules to discipline him.
For example, I'll reduce the time for playing games...
- Great. - or playing with his phone.
I'm planning to do that.
Please say a word to your son before we wrap it up.
Ji Min, I tried to be a good mom,
but I know that I have a lot to improve.
However, it's not true that I love...
only Ji Wan and Ji Soo.
- Of course. - As I saved your number...
in my phone as "My First Love",
you'll always be my first love.
Your dad is the man I met just to meet you.
He's shocked.
He's been sacrificed.
(He became like the third wheel.)
- My goodness. - I...
(I feel bad for her husband.)
I apologize for hurting your feelings...
and not trusting you.
Let's become happy together like we used to be.
Thank you for growing up well.
(Touched)
- They're a happy family. - Exactly.
Say a word to your parents.
I won't lie to you from now on.
Let's live happily.
Say something to your brother and sister too.
Say a word to them as the oldest brother.
Your sister cried whenever you caused trouble.
Ji Soo, don't worry even if I get kicked out of the house.
There are warm places to go to.
What did he say?
He's so cute.
"There are warm places to go to."
- Do you think it's a worry? - Is it a worry or not?
I think it's a worry.
I don't think it's a worry.
I also think it's a worry.
When I was scolded by my mom as a kid,
my mom looked at me as if she gave up on me...
and said harsh things. I still remember that.
I hope you can talk with him and resolve the problem.
I think it's a worry.
And I can help them resolve this problem.
How?
- You... - Are you promoting your business?
You just have to help him develop his talent.
He has every attribute to be a judo player.
(I do?)
- Why? - You should lie in judo.
- To do a shoulder throw, - Feinting?
you need to feint.
- He's perfect to do that. - I see.
- Do you want to learn judo? - He can do it for fun.
I'm not sure.
See? He's so honest.
If you think she went through a lot,
and it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
I wonder how many votes she got.
Please show us the result.
- They're adorable. - "My Untrustworthy Son".
The last digit.
I don't think she got more than 100 votes.
Did more than 100 out of 200 people vote for her?
- She got 65 votes. - 65 votes.
That means it's not a worry.
Thank you.
"Are All Kids These Days Like This?"
Hello. I'm in my 60s, and I'm raising...
my 11-year-old granddaughter.
She's good... Oh, I'm sorry, but I need you to play her granddaughter.
- What? - Yes.
She has two children.
- Please play the granddaughter. - Okay.
She's good at playing the piano and acts cute.
And she behaved herself well. She was an adorable granddaughter.
However, my granddaughter has changed these days.
"Eun Seo, let's eat."
"Gosh. I have to finish this first."
"The soup is getting cold. Come here and eat up."
"I said I have to finish this first. Gosh. I won't eat."
This is all because of smartphones.
Those smartphones...
She fiddles with her phone all day long...
as she moves her hand and feet.
I have no idea what she is doing.
"Eun Seo! Lee Eun Seo!"
"It's midnight. Aren't you going to bed?"
"I'll go to bed when I'm done with this."
(What is she doing?)
"Oh, my. Eun Seo."
"I have to go to bed because I have work tomorrow."
"Turn off your phone right now."
"Gosh. Just don't go to bed."
"Just don't go to bed"?
"How can you say that?"
Because her phone keeps ringing,
I can't even sleep well at night.
At 68, I have to take care of my granddaughter.
Nothing is easy.
What should I do?
Please help my granddaughter change.
That's all.
(Please help my granddaughter change.)
What do you all think?
Hyeun Young, you're raising children yourself.
You must be able to relate to the lady.
My girl loves her phone too.
So I told her, if she uses her phone for more than 20 minutes,
her eyes will become weird.
After that,
she always checks if it's been 20 minutes.
She never uses her phone for more than 20 minutes.
She must be a bit scared.
Sung Woon, people in your generation...
can't keep their hands off their phones, right?
I didn't have a cell phone.
Until when?
Until middle school.
I'm talking about these days.
- You still don't have one? - I do.
Are you scared I'll ask your phone number?
My goodness. He's smart.
- He's smart. - My gosh.
Let's meet the lady now.
Someone help her.
(Who is worried about her grandchild's smartphone addiction?)
Please escort her.
(Kim Young Sook)
Welcome.
You took up courage and sent a story to us.
This is my first time in Seoul.
- This is your first time? - Yes.
- Oh, my. - Oh, my.
In that sense, her granddaughter did her a favor.
Thanks to her granddaughter, she got to visit Seoul.
Do you raise her alone?
No. With my husband.
- With your husband. - Her mom's situation is bad.
So we've been raising her.
- That must be hard. - You're beautiful.
How bad is your granddaughter's smartphone addiction?
I'd say she uses it for at least 10 hours a day.
(Is that even possible?)
Except for the couple of hours she takes private classes,
she uses her phone all day.
She wriggles her fingers and toes in front of it.
I don't even know what she is up to.
She wriggles her fingers and toes in front of it?
- Yes. - She copies something?
Yes, even while eating.
Since when?
Since...
when she turned nine, I think.
If she uses her phone 10 hours a day,
she must use it until late.
Yes, until midnight.
Then you can't sleep?
Until she was 7, I put her to bed around 9.
But she is out of control now.
She is a big girl now.
When I tell her, "I have to work tomorrow, and I'm tired",
she tells me not to sleep.
(She tells me not to sleep.)
(How can she say that?)
A moment later,
- her phone rings again. - Her phone rings.
- Yes. - Oh, that.
(He knows what it is.)
Is that it?
- Yes. - You know that?
- Is that it? - Yes. I don't want to hear it.
- I need sleep. - Of course.
Does she upload videos?
Yes. People comment she is cute and pretty.
It must make her happy.
(At her age, everyone wants attention.)
You can't stop checking it.
It's true she is pretty.
She is pretty and nice.
- Her phone? - No. My granddaughter.
- Your granddaughter? - Yes.
Have you ever considered...
putting her phone away...
or getting rid of it?
- I have, - Oh, my.
but if she doesn't have a phone, it'd cause me trouble.
- Why? - When I'm at work,
I don't know if she went to her private classes...
- Right. - or school.
- You have to know. - I have to know...
- where she is. - That's right.
- She becomes restless too. - What does she do?
She bites her nails.
- If her phone is away? - Yes.
(Guilty)
Yes, so...
She is just like me.
- She bites her nails. - Really?
Yes. I bit my nails too.
I think that's her way of dealing with loneliness.
- Yes. She can't meet her parents. - I did that too.
I was lonely too.
I was always outside with my friends.
My husband works as a security guard at night.
He comes home in the morning.
- He is tired and needs sleep... - Right.
- after working all night. - Of course.
So he doesn't say anything to her.
That's why I'm worried.
(I hope my granddaughter will grow up all right.)
Her precious granddaughter is here.
- Let's meet her. - She is pretty.
She is. Hello.
Hello.
(Who is the granddaughter who is addicted to smartphones?)
She looks adorable.
Do you see any celebrity you like?
(She is 11 years old.)
Maybe no one.
(Who does she like?)
- Maybe no one. - I see four.
- I see 4. - 4?
Who are they?
Yeong Ja, Sung Woon,
Dong Yeob, and I don't know the other one's name.
- I'm Kim Tae Gyun. - Okay.
(Laughing)
- I'm just happy she likes me. - Right.
She doesn't have to know all the names.
I'm disappointed.
- No one over there? - No one over here.
- I'm sorry. - She is too young.
You heard about your grandma's worry, right?
- Yes. - Do you understand her?
A little bit.
I use my phone a lot.
Isn't 10 hours a day too much?
Do you really use your phone for 10 hours?
Yes. I check my phone when I wake up.
I check again after breakfast.
When I get home after classes, I use my phone until I go to bed.
(My goodness.)
Do you use it during classes too?
I don't use it during classes.
But on my way there.
Once, I even tripped over a stone.
That's dangerous. You look at your phone while walking?
- Yes. - Are you surprised?
Yes. What if she has an accident?
- Right. - A car accident.
- You must be worried. - Yes.
She is your only granddaughter.
Eun Seo, what do you do with your phone?
When I upload videos of finger dance or dance covers,
I get hearts...
or comments. It's fun to check them.
How many hearts do you get?
- Once, I got as many as 7,400. - Wow.
- For one video? - Yes.
- Oh, my. - You're an insider.
- You're an insider. - Wow.
That's incredible. She gets a lot more than I do.
I know what dance is,
- but what's finger dance? - Finger dance.
It's something like this.
All the kids do it.
Is it something popular kids do?
Can you show us?
Do you need music?
(The finger dance is revealed.)
Finger dance.
(Her fingers move fast.)
(She finishes up with a heart.)
- That's interesting. - You're so good.
That's so cool.
Can you dance too?
Yes, I can dance.
What song do you like?
- "Gashina" by SUNMI. - "Gashina".
- "Gashina"? Okay. - Isn't that a sexy song?
Please dance for us.
("Gashina" by SUNMI)
(Why are you leaving the pretty me?)
(She even makes the right facial expressions.)
Oh, my.
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My goodness.
Oh, my.
- She's amazing. - She is still young.
She copies the moves but not the feelings.
- She copies the feelings too. - When SUNMI does this...
She did well.
But Eun Seo does it like this.
You upload videos of you dancing?
- Yes. - How many videos...
of finger dance and regular dance do you upload a day?
I upload too many to count.
On some days, I upload as many as 15.
(As many as 15)
- In a day? - Yes.
Can't you just upload one video a day?
Why do you upload so many?
I have nothing else to do.
The problem is, you use your phone until late at night,
so your grandma can't sleep.
Don't you feel bad about that?
I have so much fun while doing it,
so I never thought about that.
- You get absorbed. - I never thought about that.
When your grandma said she had to sleep,
did you really tell her not to sleep?
Yes. She kept whining that she had to sleep.
Can't you at least put your phone on silent?
I put it on silent when I go to bed.
Other than that,
if I don't check the number of hearts or followers right away,
I get behind.
It's all the internet's fault.
(I don't understand why she is doing that.)
What do you want to be?
- Do you have a dream? - I used to...
want to become a celebrity.
But my grandma hates the idea.
(Opposed)
These days, I want to become either a flight attendant...
or a news anchor.
(I see.)
Even if you want to become a flight attendant or a news anchor,
you still have to study, right?
- Yes. - Are you a good student?
- Yes, I am. - I'm sure she is.
She is a very good student.
She even entered an English speech contest...
- and won it. - She is good at English?
She won the grand prize.
Can we hear a little?
- Action. - Hello. My name is Lucy.
Have you ever seen the trashes on the street?
Maybe you said yes.
I can see many people throwing trash on the street...
everywhere. Every street gets dirty.
I want to ask you. Please don't throw trash anywhere.
Throw trash in a trash can.
That is very simple but is very important.
Thank you for listening.
- Excellent. - Excellent.
Thank you.
- Wow! - She's really good.
Ma'am, it seems that she's smart...
and knows how to voice her opinions.
She's a great kid in every way...
- except for her addiction. - That's right.
Does she play with her phone...
in any other places than home?
She got an IV at a hospital.
But she was playing with her phone even while getting the IV.
- Was she using her phone? - It was in her left arm.
She was holding her phone with her left hand...
while moving her right hand like this.
She was doing finger dance at that moment.
(I guess she couldn't give up.)
If I stopped posting videos because I was sick,
I would've lost hearts that I was collecting.
- The followers. - She's professional.
What's the purpose of getting many hearts?
When you gain 14,000 followers,
you're given the right for one-minute videos.
- One-minute videos? - Or else, you can post videos...
- that are only 15 seconds long. - I see.
- You can post a longer video. - If I can make one-minute videos,
I can film my finger dance much longer.
(Is that important enough to disturb my sleep?)
Her grandpa is here too.
Sir, hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
Your wife said this is her first time in Seoul.
Is this your first time too?
No. We rarely go out together.
Right. Since you two are living together,
you don't have to go out together.
That's right.
Sir, do you agree...
that your granddaughter is addicted to her smartphone?
You must've seen the news...
on teenagers' smartphone addiction problems...
and how they go astray.
My wife decided to come on the show because it's a big problem.
Exactly.
After she started using a smartphone,
- she became estranged from me. - From you?
Yes. And she looks down on me.
(She looks down on me.)
- Gosh. - She looks down on you?
For example, since I only know how to make or receive calls...
and nothing else about smartphones.
So I ask her how to use it,
she throws a tantrum saying she already taught me several times.
Eun Seo, why didn't you kindly tell him how to use it?
It's understandable for him to forget how to do it.
I told him how to do it many times,
but he kept asking me over and over again.
So I got frustrated and ignored him.
- Eun Seo, when you were... - She's cute.
- a baby, - Yes.
you kept failing to use chopsticks...
even though they taught you how to do it several times,
but your grandparents did not throw a tantrum.
- They helped you patiently, right? - Of course.
I don't remember that.
She has a point though.
(It's so hard to have a conversation with an 11-year-old girl.)
(This is why it's hard.)
People are worried about harsh comments...
or things like that. You have experience too, right?
Some people said, "Quit pretending you're nice."
Some says swear words. I don't get a lot of bad comments.
I just try to ignore them.
- She has a strong mind. - It's because...
if I take action,
- Right. - it might cause a bigger problem.
You don't have to respond to it.
It seems like the comment she got...
were not as bad as your husband thought they were.
She once used my phone number to post her videos,
and I got some text messages.
"Have you ever kissed a man?"
That's a serious problem.
Someone even asked if she had any sexual experience.
Well...
(How could that person say such a thing to a child?)
Eun Seo didn't even know what that meant.
- So she showed me the text... - She had no idea.
and asked what it meant.
I couldn't tell her what it meant.
I just said, "You'll know when you grow up."
- "You'll know when you grow up." - That's right.
- I'm taken aback. Go on, please. - My goodness.
I scolded the sender saying he shouldn't say such a thing...
to a little child.
I said it was her grandma's phone, and he stopped texting.
He never texted her again.
There are bad people who tempt others like that.
My husband doesn't know.
- He doesn't know? - Oh, boy.
He seems very angry.
- He looks angry. - He must be worried.
(He's worried even more about his granddaughter.)
Why did you give your grandma's number to that person?
He asked for my number, so I gave him without thinking.
And he sent texts like that.
Did you give her number just because he asked for it?
Yes.
You should never do that.
- That's very dangerous. - You could get in trouble.
- Never do that again, okay? - I don't do that anymore.
Your wife said you don't...
stop her from using her phone.
That's not true.
I think my wife is the one who sides with her.
If I start to scold Eun Seo,
my wife holds her in her arms to stop me from scolding her.
- I think my wife is spoiling her. - She spoils Eun Seo?
- When I was a child, - I understand you.
my parents got divorced.
So I grew up in an orphanage.
- For a while? - And...
Eun Seo is living separately from her parents too.
I feel sorry for her.
(I feel sorry for her.)
(Why is she crying?)
But she has such great grandparents.
Because I wasn't loved by my parents when I was a child,
I try to give her as much love as I can give.
(I think I do that because I want to give her enough love.)
(It breaks everyone's heart as they know how she feels.)
I can't seem to control it.
What your husband just said was right,
- but we understand how you feel. - We can understand you.
Eun Seo, how do you feel since you saw her cry?
Why would she cry on a TV show?
(Why would she cry on a TV show?)
(Shocked)
- Hey! - Hey!
- She lacks empathy. - She cried because she was sad.
I really hate it when she cries.
- Why? - I told her not to cry...
It's embarrassing to cry here.
- Can you see how she feels? - Because she looks weak?
Yes, a little.
- But you hate to see her cry? - Yes.
Does it upset you?
(I feel upset when I see her cry.)
Since your grandma even cried while telling us how she felt,
you should use your phone less.
I can't do that.
Why not?
Since I'm an only child,
- I get bored. - I see.
Kids don't play outside because it's too cold.
So I play with my phone instead.
You can hang out with your grandparents.
(Sighing)
Why did you sigh?
I wanted to hang with them,
so I asked them to play yut game...
and the game of go with me...
- even though I'm good at it. - You could play with grandpa.
My grandma always says she's tired...
and she plays the go-stop card game.
(She plays the go-stop card game?)
And unlike what my grandpa said,
all he does is switching channels while lying on the floor.
- He watches TV all the time? - When I ask them to play with me,
they always say they are tired.
Does your grandma play go-stop often?
I know that I use my phone a lot,
but honestly, so does my grandma.
(Embarrassed)
Does she play the card game on her phone?
She said that it's good for preventing Alzheimer's.
- That's true. - She said that to me.
So I couldn't say anything.
I clean an apartment building, which is hard work.
- It's hard work. - So...
both my husband and I are very tired when we come home.
- Of course. - Of course.
- Oh, dear. - Since we have a big age gap,
I don't even understand what she says.
She uses so many shortened words.
- I guess that's a thing now. - Shortened words.
- Right. - My grandma...
tells me about university even before going to bed.
- What exactly... - But you're only 11.
- does she say? - She won't stop...
saying I should go to an elite university and study hard.
I'm only in fourth grade.
But she always talks about it.
She's only in fourth grade. I think Eun Seo is right about it.
I think it's too early to talk about university now.
I have never been to Seoul in my life.
- And... - Sir, it's your fault.
More importantly,
I don't want Eun Seo to become a big fish in a small pond.
I want her to study in Seoul so she can see a bigger world...
and have a lot of new experience.
Since I'm 68 now,
- I won't be around her for long. - Right.
(She's crying again!)
Even if I'm not around her,
- I hope she'll understand... - My goodness.
- why I wanted her to go to Seoul. - To see a bigger world.
But she's too young to understand that.
- She wants you not to cry on TV. - Pardon?
- She's not crying. - So please stop crying.
- I won't cry anymore. - Right.
Hey. Eun Seo.
- Is she smiling? - Sorry?
- No. She's not crying. - Are you going to storm out?
- Is she smiling? - She's acting.
- Is she smiling? - She's not shedding tears.
She's not crying.
One day...
Since I pick her up at school instead of her mom,
her classmates asked her, "Where is your mom?"
"Why does your grandma pick you up every day?"
I think they asked questions like that and that made her upset.
She asked me where her mom went.
- It must've broken your heart. - Yes.
(Her heart ached thinking of the pain Eun Seo was going through.)
Were you upset because you were compared to your classmates...
at school because of your parents many times before?
I went to my friend's birthday party.
Everyone else came with their moms.
- But I... - Your mom wasn't there with you.
(She must've missed her mom so much and felt very sad.)
When do you miss your parents the most?
I don't really have to think about them.
(Shocked)
Since I don't know how my mom looks,
even when she appears in my dream,
I could see her face only if I know how she looks.
I can't see her face.
(Her mom has no face in her dreams.)
I write letters to my dad from time to time.
But he's too busy to write me back. So...
(I should stay strong.)
(It wouldn't be weird if she cries because she misses him,)
(but she endures it at such a young age, which breaks their hearts.)
I grew up with my grandparents too.
And I don't remember my mom's face either.
I went outside and hung out with my friends.
That comforted me...
- I see. - while living with my grandparents.
Her grandparents can't play games with Eun Seo...
- for a long time, - That's right.
Therefore, I can understand why she uses her phone so much.
(Eun Seo needs someone to hang out with or rely on.)
(They should find the alternative for the smartphone.)
That's why I looked into some places...
for her to make new friends...
and enjoy herself.
I found some place where she can do that.
You will like this.
There is a place called Deoksan Youth Cultural Center.
You know this place. It's five minutes from your house.
- I know. - Have you been there?
I went there with her.
Really?
They have home baking, belly dancing...
ballet and other diverse classes.
And the cost is 10 dollars a month.
- That's cheap. - Isn't it good?
Another good thing is... you like dancing, right?
If you come in groups of five or more...
they will set up clubs for dancing, singing and so on.
(Amazing)
- That's really good. - You can set your own hours.
They rent you dance rehearsal rooms for free and...
- help you to hold performances. - Wow.
- That's really good. - Wow.
Do you have five friends that come to your mind?
Give me their names quickly.
Kim Me Yeo, Kim Yeo Jin.
And...
- Nam Yoon A. - One more.
- Kwon Ji Yun. - Done.
- That's five including you. - Including you, that's five.
That's exactly five.
That's so nice.
- That's five including Eun Seo. - There's one more.
This is the second place.
- There is another one? - Yes.
It's the building right next to the cultural center.
They have a debate, English, and art class.
They also have programs like read and play.
And the cost is...
free. The classes are free.
If you invest an hour and a half...
in each place every day,
your speech will improve so you can become a news anchor.
Or join a girl group.
My grandma is against me joining a girl group.
- What? - Grandma...
- They are entertainers. - Grandma...
- Dreams... - They are entertainers?
(I didn't know girl groups were entertainers.)
Just rehearse without telling your grandma.
It wasn't your dream to...
meet your husband and live like this, right?
Of course, not.
But life led you to meet your husband and get married.
Just because Eun Seo has this dream doesn't mean it'll stay the same.
- Dreams continue to change. - That's right.
How about letting her do the dance club?
- Is it okay? - She likes dancing so it's okay.
- That's better, isn't it? - Yes.
Rather than looking at her phone and ruining her sight.
Eun Seo, can you cut down your time on your phone?
(Can she cut down her time on the phone?)
(You can do it, right?)
Honestly, it's hard for me to answer.
She is being honest.
I truly want you to know the present reality.
Other grandparents in other houses are all resting.
They can play card games all day long.
But your grandparents are working because of you.
Should you be thankful to them or not?
Thankful.
Have you ever massaged your grandma's legs...
when she was tired?
Have you ever massaged your grandpa's shoulders?
No.
You see?
You are always receiving.
I think it's now time for you to do...
- something for your grandparents. - Okay.
Your grandparents won't be with you forever.
They might not be able to take good care of you like now.
From now on...
you need to start learning self-control.
You need to have that mind-set to be able to do something.
You know you can't achieve anything just by doing things you want to do.
Yes.
Right? So can you cut down time on your phone?
(Does Eun Seo understand?)
Yes.
- Right? - Yes.
(Smiles widely)
That's good.
- Then... - Well done.
Before Eun Seo changes her mind...
I think it's important to decide...
how long she can use her phone each day.
I want you to use your phone just two hours a day.
- That's a lot. - Just two hours a day.
I wish for you to go through adolescence without trouble.
But I can't ask anyone about this.
Because if I become close to someone...
- I have to tell them about my life. - Grandma.
Eun Seo doesn't like it.
So it'd be better for you to not cry and just talk calmly.
I'm not crying.
(Oh, my!)
- Grandma is so cute. - She is...
- so cute. - She is not crying.
I'll tell you the reason. Jincheon and Seoul are different.
- There's a lot more fine dust here. - That's right.
It's because of fine dust. You have to cough now.
(Coughing)
(Please don't cry anymore.)
Finally, do you have anything you wanted to say...
to your grandparents?
I will try to cut down on using my smartphone.
So please do the things I want to do...
from time to time.
Show your love to your grandparents.
I love you to the moon and back.
I love you so much.
(You are doing a good job raising her.)
(Rather than worrying and shedding tears, we hope...)
(you spend each day building pretty memories with your granddaughter.)
Hyeon Ju, you go first. Is it a worry or not?
It's a problem that can be solved.
So I don't think it's a worry.
It's necessary to open Eun Seo's heart...
through honest talks like this.
So I think it's a worry.
I think she'll grow up nicely. You don't have to worry too much.
I also think it's not a worry.
Just like Eun Seo, I just kept on receiving.
- From your grandparents? - Yes.
So when my grandma passed away, I had a lot of regrets.
I wish I had been better to her when she was alive.
I think it would be nice...
if Eun Seo could think about grandma's thoughts.
(Sung Woon thinks it's not a worry.)
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What do the audience think?)
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"Are All Kids These Days Like This?"
(The last digit is 3.)
It's gone over 100 votes.
Going over 23.
- It's 123 votes. - That's a lot of votes.
Thank you.
I have met a life coordinator who is scarier than Kim Joo Young.
That is the worry of our guest who is having a very hard time.
"Life Coordinator".
(Audience laugh at his change in expression.)
Hello.
After meeting a very strict life coordinator...
I am living a life that I do not want.
I am a 22-year-old girl.
It was when I was trying to decide which high school to go to.
"I want to go to a vocational high school."
"It's my dream to get a job quickly."
"What? Stop talking nonsense and go to an academic school."
Three years later.
Instead of going to university, I want to work with machines.
"I already have a couple of mechanical licenses."
"Stop talking nonsense and go to a four-year university."
This scary coordinator to whom I can't talk back at all...
is my sister who is two years older.
In the end, I went to the university as my sister wanted.
But I have been at a loss and had a very hard time.
Even then, my sister says...
"This time, you..."
"should go on Miss Grape Pageant. Understood?"
"I don't want to. I'm not interested at all."
"Stop talking nonsense, and participate."
(She's making her sister go on a beauty pageant?)
"This really is going to be the last time."
"After that, I am going to live the life I want."
I gave my all and...
lost 14kg to go on the pageant.
What happened was, I...
I won first place.
- First place? - Wow!
- That's great. - "That's really good."
"Now, let's prepare for the Miss Korea Pageant".
"Stop talking nonsense and go on a diet! Okay?"
I am not my sister's puppet.
How long do I have to live like this?
I want to get out of this life.
Please help me and stop my sister.
(I want to get out of my sister's control.)
Hyeun Young, you have a lot of experience in beauty pageants.
I was Miss Gyeonggi, Miss Incheon...
and other regions.
- You went around changing regions? - Yes.
(She was a nationwide beauty.)
Truthfully, my results weren't that good.
I envy her a bit. Since she came in first place...
I am really curious about what she looks like.
- Because she is the winner? - Yes.
I introduce you to our guest who is the winner of Miss Grape Pageant.
She must feel pressured.
(The guest who wants to escape her sister's control.)
(Smiling)
(Jeong Moon Ji)
Oh, dear.
(When did he go out there?)
Oh, dear. Please take his hand.
- Jun Ho is so obvious. - Jun Ho.
- He is excited. - Jun Ho, this is not a blind date.
Of all three, he is most excited this time.
We didn't even tell him to go.
- No. - I know.
Please introduce yourself.
Hello, I am from Daegu.
I am Jeong Moon Ji, and I am 22 years old.
- Welcome. - She's pretty.
You are pretty.
Is your sister that interfering as to be called your life coordinator?
Last year, she suddenly told me to go on a beauty pageant.
- The one you talked about. - Miss Grape Pageant.
The Miss Grape Pageant. My sister is the type of person...
if you don't do it, she will chase you until the end.
She will chase and nag me.
- Continuously. - Until I do it.
From the moment I wake up, she talks about the pageant...
until the moment I close my eyes to sleep.
So she drives me crazy.
So I negotiated with her.
I told her I'll go on this pageant for the first and last time.
No matter what the result of the pageant is...
I'll never go on such a pageant, and you'll no longer interfere.
- That was the condition? - We negotiated.
Yes. So I went on the pageant.
Oh, my. I won first place.
We'll now take a look...
at the photo of the time when you won the pageant.
How did she look?
- So pretty. - She's so pretty.
That's Miss Grape.
(Everyone is impressed.)
- My goodness. - You got that waistline...
without any photoshop?
I really bent my back there.
- Did you bend your waist? - To make that waistline.
- I really bent my back. - You're so pretty.
- Do it for us. - What?
Like the way you did at the pageant.
- I had a line to say at that time. - Great.
Why don't you do it for us?
I'll be the eldest daughter-in-law for Yeongcheon grapes.
This was it.
- That's right. - The eldest daughter-in-law.
Her sister is saying she didn't tell her to do that.
(The older sister is taken back.)
(We can see his heart fluttering by the way he is looking.)
(I see you.)
- Jun Ho. - Yes?
Please be careful of your expression.
- He's so happy. - Very happy.
I thought Sayuri was your ideal type.
- Yes. - They look completely different.
Why do you look so happy?
It's time for me to get married. How old is your sister?
(Everyone stops moving.)
He already looked over the older sister.
Do you want to be introduced to her older sister?
Yes, if I get the chance.
Okay. I get it.
We can ask for her opinion later.
(Will their love get a happy ending? It will be revealed in a moment.)
If you really don't like it, I don't think you can do a pose like that.
What don't you like about going on a pageant?
The hardest thing about preparing for the beauty pageant was...
I was made into something that I was not.
I had to go on stage wearing a mask.
I wore high heels for the first time preparing for the pageant.
You have to wear shoes...
that have 12 to 15-inch heels.
Everyday, I get blisters all over my feet.
- It must be hard. - It was a mess.
But my sister just says it was like that for her too.
"Practice walking. Try this pose. Do the speech."
That's what she tells me. I didn't like that.
My sister was in the pageant a year before me.
- She participated before you? - Yes, she did.
She went on the Miss Grape Pageant before you.
She went a year before you.
What was the result for her?
- My sister... - Was she eliminated?
Was she eliminated?
She came in fourth place.
- She was in fourth place. - She was in fourth place.
She didn't get into the top three.
You see, because she didn't win...
it seems to me that she is trying to realize her dreams...
through me.
My sister's dream was to be a model.
Or to become Miss Korea.
But I hate it.
You lost 14kg.
- For Miss Grape Pageant. - How can you lose...
so much weight when you hate it?
At home you wear comfortable clothes, right?
But when I'm wearing clothes like that...
she asks me, "How can you live with a body like that?"
Or "Your body is packed with cellulite."
She says things like that to me.
Ever since I was little...
I have always been chubby, so I wanted to challenge myself.
That was what I was thinking.
So you really don't want to go on Miss Korea pageant?
- No. I really don't want to. - Really?
We really need to meet the sister quickly for Jun Ho's sake.
(I've been waiting for this moment.)
Let's meet the older sister. Hello.
(Who is the older sister planning her sister's life?)
(She is gorgeous.)
I'll ask you bluntly.
What do you think of Jun Ho?
(Asking bluntly, What do you think of Jun Ho?)
(She is laughing.)
(Is spring finally coming to Jun Ho?)
(Do I have to call him my brother-in-law?)
First, we have to ask if she is seeing anyone.
(Are you seeing any one?)
Yes, I am.
(Oh, no.)
(Game over in an instant.)
Can you understand your sister's complaint?
No, I don't understand it at all.
It's because...
she has a naturally bright and energetic character.
It's her true self.
- Right. - That's why it's possible.
She is not wearing a mask.
I'm bringing out what is inside her.
But she's saying she hates bothering with all that stuff.
She doesn't like going on pageants itself.
But she was a double-crown-winner.
She also received the popularity prize.
- She has possibilities. - Seriously,
I saw that personally.
I honestly think she doesn't know how lucky she is.
You are actually coordinating your sister's life.
So what's your goal? How far are you going to go?
In March and April, there are the regional preliminaries...
for Miss Korea pageant.
That's right.
So I want Moon Ji to participate in that.
If she wins, she will go to the main Miss Korea pageant?
Yes, of course.
If she wins an award in Miss Korea...
- then onto Miss Universe? - I didn't think that far.
(Sister, please get a hold of yourself.)
Your sister thinks you are making her do this...
because this is your dream.
It's true it's my dream. It's my unrealized dream.
I am too short.
When I was young, I went on a beauty pageant,
and I won the award.
(Older sister is looking very pretty.)
- You were pretty. - Very cute.
- You got the grand award. - Is it a grand award?
- She looks beautiful. - You were number eight.
This is when you went on the Yeongcheon Miss Grape Pageant.
When you came in fourth. Right?
Don't you think you are...
ignoring your sister's thoughts about her future?
I'm supporting her.
I'm telling her the path that would be easier for her.
I don't think I'm ignoring her thoughts.
- Did you watch "Sky Castle"? - Yes, I enjoyed it.
Young Jae was ruined in that way.
The important thing is, her dream changes every day.
I will give you an example.
At first, she wanted to major in Nursing.
Suddenly, she wanted to study to become a police officer.
She went to the academy for it.
Just three weeks ago she suddenly said...
she has a lot of bitterness.
So she wanted to learn pansori all of a sudden.
She wanted to learn pansori all of a sudden.
(Is she headed towards becoming an intangible cultural asset?)
She changes her mind.
She changes her mind suddenly.
I've something to say to this.
So... If she had a dream...
I won't be doing this.
(I agree with the older sister.)
From the time of choosing my high school...
to the time of choosing my university major,
there were only my mother and my sister's opinion.
In order to escape from that, I thought about joining the police.
But I couldn't get in.
(She started drifting as a means to find an escape.)
(They must have pushed her continuously.)
Let's get an objective view.
We invited Moon Ji's friend.
If I was Moon Ji,
I would have fought like cats and dogs with my sister.
- It's that severe? - It because...
while she was preparing for the pageant...
I met her every day.
And she cried every day.
She kept saying, "What can I do? This is so hard."
So I said to her, "Tell your sister strongly...
- that you don't want to do it." - That's right.
But Moon Ji is too nice to do that. She is really, really nice.
For example, when we go out to eat...
even if there is something she can't eat...
if we want to eat it, she'd just come with us.
She would just come and not eat.
- That's something else. - She doesn't show how she feels.
She is really nice like that.
But in contrast, her older sister is very strong in character.
But if she interferes this much...
won't you have to marry the man she chooses?
Or something like that?
Something similar happened.
When I go out with a guy...
in middle or high school...
my sister would first look into who I am going out with.
She asks around and finds the guy.
- Then... - She does a background check.
She calls me immediately and tells me to break up with him.
- Oh, my. - What's the reason?
She just doesn't like him.
(Don't ask so many questions. I just don't like him.)
One time, it was really outrageous.
I had a guy friend that I was seeing in high school.
I was walking outside with him.
My sister suddenly came to us.
Then this is what she said to him.
What did she say?
- "You." - "You."
"Are you crazy?"
"Why are you going out with Moon Ji?"
"Who do you think you are to go out with her?"
"Break up with her."
(Just like in a soap opera.)
Her sister is acting like her mother.
That's what mothers do before marriage.
When I heard her sister said, "Why are you seeing him?"
I thought her sister had gone out with him before.
- That wasn't it. - If that's the case,
- she can say that. - Right.
(That certainly wasn't the case.)
You can say that is...
how a father with a daughter would feel.
I feel not many guys are good enough for her.
Frankly, no matter where you put her...
I feel it's not good enough for her.
I do that with a true love for her.
I should have made it possible for my sister to say that.
All her life, my sister has been saying, "Why?"
"Why isn't my sister good enough for you?"
(Sisters with different responses.)
It will be different in my next life.
(It will be different in my next life.)
When you are reborn...
I also have an older sister.
I confronted her frequently.
Even if you have...
a huge fight with your sister...
you should tell her that you want to go your own way.
I cried.
I also tried to have a heart-to-heart talk with her.
But that doesn't work with her.
I think she takes me lightly.
When she talks to me she really uses harsh words.
- Harsh words? - When she talks.
You mean verbal abuse?
I have a beauty mark next to my ear.
She tells me it looks dirty.
(She tells her sister that it looks dirty.)
So I should hide it.
What she says to me always...
lowers my self-esteem and makes me feel intimidated.
The hardest thing about going on a pageant is...
there's nothing I can eat, so I don't get enough nutrition.
So I lost a lot of hair.
- That's because of stress. - And also...
I caught a cold and it was so severe...
that it became pneumonia.
I got antibiotic shots.
And I was hospitalized for 2 times in 1 month.
- So... - That must have been hard.
They told me the cause for all that was stress.
But when I go home and say it's because of stress...
she tells me, "What have you got to be so stressed out about?"
"You live doing whatever you want to do."
So after stressing out about this alone...
I finally went to a psychologist.
- Did you get therapy? - I got therapy.
It was physically hard. But the hardest thing was...
dealing with it in my mind.
There was nowhere to lean on at home.
To be frank...
people in their 20s...
are all stressed out.
They all have mental problems.
But that's different for everyone.
You are talking about yourself.
You have heard your sister say all this.
Do you still feel that she should go on the beauty pageant?
If she has a firm goal...
I am willing to support her on that.
- She wants to be an air mechanic. - So she doesn't have to do it?
If she has a firm goal.
It's not a problem of whether she has a firm goal or not.
- She doesn't want to do it. - She doesn't want to do it.
- Why does she have to do it? - But she is good at it.
(But she is good at it. Communication seems impossible.)
It's because she can't refuse.
That's her personality.
That's why she is so stressed out.
We've been talking about that all this time.
I will ask again.
You really don't want to go on the beauty pageant.
It stresses you out, right? You don't want to do it.
Tell your sister.
(She is too nice to speak her mind.)
You need to practice speaking your mind.
You need to say what you want to say.
Are you going to sacrifice yourself all your life?
Moon Ji knows how much her sister loves her.
Because she knows that, she can't disobey her sister.
Your sister won't be disappointed.
Say it.
She is crying.
- You are scary. - "Say it."
(She gets hurt by her sister's words again.)
- "You can tell me." - You are scary.
"You can tell me, Moon Ji." You should speak more warmly.
- Actually... - She is shedding tears.
- Actually, your sister... - Think about what these tears mean.
You think she should have a solid dream,
but it's impossible to be certain about everything in life.
While some people enter society with a definite goal,
the others find it along the journey.
Some find it in their 30s, and people find it in their 40s.
Everyone is different.
(People find their dreams at different times.)
- Today, - You should tell her.
you need to tell her.
If you don't say what you want, you will make your sister look bad.
- That's right. - Your sister needs to know.
It was incredibly hard to go...
on a beauty pageant.
However, it was something you and Mom...
desperately wanted me to do.
That's why I forced myself to do it.
(The hurtful memories make her tear up again.)
It was really hard.
There is no one to lean on when I am home.
I go outside because it's too hard,
but you always nag at me for spending less time at home.
I don't know why...
you tell me to go on a beauty pageant.
(I don't know why you tell me to go on a beauty pageant.)
But I don't want to do it.
I can't do it!
(I can't do it!)
I am not going to do it.
(Her words are shy but sure.)
That's how you speak your mind.
I am glad she spoke her mind.
I bet her sister didn't know Moon Ji hated it...
this much.
Let's hear your response.
It took a lot of effort for your sister to speak her mind.
I understand that it's difficult...
to set a goal in a short time,
but I want you to make an effort...
to find a goal.
If you show me that...
- Miss Korea Pageant. - Whether she shows you that...
or not, you should tell her,
"You don't need to go on the Miss Korea Pageant."
She should find it first.
(She should find a goal first.)
- What are you talking about? - What do you mean?
- I mean... - What's your dream?
- Do you have a solid dream? - Eun Ji's coordinator.
I... Well...
I really don't understand.
Why do you want her to enter a beauty pageant...
when she hates it that much?
If she loses confidence and gets hurt...
from a bad result at a beauty pageant,
who will take responsibility?
I think you are being too irresponsible.
If she tells you what she wants to do,
can you give her a piece of advice and cheer her on?
- Of course. - Right?
- Then you won't force her. - Of course.
From the age of 20 to 21,
I didn't get to enjoy...
university life.
You had to prepare for the competition.
I want to enjoy my life as a university student...
- and club activities. - Club activities.
I want to enjoy those things as I look for my dream.
(I want to enjoy those things as I look for my dream.)
She didn't give you plans and dreams...
you would approve of.
She said she wants to prepare to find her dream.
What do you think? Could she skip Miss Korea Pageant?
(Could she skip the Miss Korea Pageant?)
But...
(Dissatisfied)
But...
(She doesn't let her sister off the hook.)
- She doesn't like her plan. - Let go of your sister.
Let go of your sister and live your life diligently.
It's not as easy as it seems.
I truly don't understand.
Don't you know what it means to let go of your sister?
If you are two years older than Moon Ji,
you aren't much older than her.
I don't understand why you would talk...
as if you are in your 50s or 60s.
(They fail to find the middle ground.)
This is your last chance to say what you want.
(She takes a deep breath.)
I made my sister look like a bad person...
by coming to the show.
- Don't say that. - My goodness.
- This is the sister you have. - This is how she feels.
(She was listening without much thought...)
(when she was hit with Moon Ji's consideration.)
(Everyone is touched.)
(No matter what anyone says, family members love each other.)
It can't be helped if you want to find your life.
- Tell her confidently. - Everything has a price.
"Your life and my life are different."
It's better for an older sister to get criticized.
Older sisters can endure it. It's okay.
That's a sisterhood.
If something bothers you,
- let it show on your face. - Right.
- That's a sisterhood. - Say what's hard on you.
- That's the only way to live. - Moon Ji's sister.
Would you rather see Moon Ji get criticized?
I would rather see me get criticized.
That's right.
You would rather have Moon Ji say what's on her mind, right?
- Yes. - Don't go outside for a while.
(Older sister shouldn't go outside for a while.)
All right.
- It's okay. Tell her. - It's okay.
Your sister told you to say it.
I don't want to enter...
- the Miss Korea Pageant. - Don't do it.
- The Miss Korea Pageant. - Don't do it.
(She readily tells her not to do it.)
- What? - Listen to your sister first.
- You sound like you want to fight. - "Don't do it."
You should have said it after a beat.
(I understand my sister now.)
I don't ask for a lot.
When you talk to me,
I hope you would ask for my opinion.
Don't say, "Do this." Say, "Do you want to do this?"
You and Mom make decisions...
before telling me.
It changes the course of my life...
and makes me waver.
You told your sister what Mom and Dad want.
It's time to change.
Now, protect your sister from Mom and Dad.
It's a good line.
It's not like I read books.
(How does Yeong Ja have such good words?)
It's your turn.
As Yeong Ja said,
I won't represent Mom and Dad and tell you what to do.
I will relay your words to them.
- I am sorry. - That's good to hear.
- Seriously. - That's good to hear.
- You did it. - Congratulations.
Do you love your only sister in the world?
She has two sisters.
Do you love...
one of your two sisters in the world?
(We cheer for their sisterhood.)
Shall we go?
If you ask her what she is thinking...
instead of forcing your ideas,
- you will become better sisters. - Right.
Your controlling nature...
didn't give Moon Ji an opportunity to be independent.
For your own sake, you should let go of your sister.
I have beaten myself up for my family members.
I realized that it's not good for me.
I have seen many athletes rise to the top...
- over 10 years. - Yes.
None of them rose to the top at someone's bidding.
I think it's a worry to have a dream...
forced upon her.
That's the truth.
I think it's a big worry.
My parents wanted me to enter the Miss Korea Pageant.
I gained weight on purpose to avoid that.
(She gained weight on purpose to avoid that.)
- You didn't want to do it. - I was very skinny in the past.
- She was very skinny. - I was very skinny.
You would be surprised. I was like Miss Korea.
That grandpa was like, "Don't talk nonsense."
(I simply meant you are pretty as you are.)
"Don't talk nonsense."
(Laughing)
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Let's see the result.
"Life Coordinator".
Did it get over 100 votes?
It got over 100 votes. If it gets over 130 votes,
"Life Coordinator" will win. How many votes did it get?
- 150 votes. - My gosh.
(150 votes)
This week, "Life Coordinator" wins.
The winner will receive a cash prize.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
Thank you.
("WANT" by Tae Min)